Emily Flores
Church attire has shifted over the years, moving from formal-only to a more relaxed standard, but relaxed doesn’t mean “rolled out of bed.” The balance lies somewhere between comfort and respect, and a lot of us miss the mark without realizing it. So, before you roll into the sanctuary, check out these 10 wardrobe choices that could quietly and unintentionally undermine church etiquette.
Graphic Tees With Offensive Messages
Worship spaces aren’t the place for shirts that feature profanity, violence, or crude jokes. These messages contradict values in 1 Peter 3:3-4 and distract others. Even seemingly funny slogans or edgy band tees have caused tension during sermons or sparked awkward glances mid-service.
Short Shorts Or Micro Skirts
When sitting in pews or moving through aisles, short hemlines become even more revealing. Churches typically expect modest coverage during worship. Some provide spare shawls at the entrance. Youth groups even host dress code nights to help teens follow appropriate church wear comfortably.
Low-Cut Or Plunging Necklines
Necklines that expose cleavage are considered immodest in most churches. They draw focus from worship and create discomfort for others. Some congregations have choir robes available for cover-ups. Distracted pastors and uncomfortable stares are common side effects. Fashion tape doesn’t fix inappropriate cuts.
Hats Worn Indoors (For Men)
For men, keeping hats on inside a sanctuary goes against 1 Corinthians 11:4 and long-standing etiquette. It’s a gesture often tied to respect. Some churches post reminders at the door like “Hats off, hearts open,” and yes, even backward caps have triggered generational debates over reverence.
Crop Tops That Expose The Midriff
Midriff-baring crop tops often conflict with church modesty standards, drawing attention away from the service. Movements like raising arms may reveal more skin, while belly-button rings add to the distraction. Many churches prefer modest attire to maintain focus and respect during worship.
Backless Dresses Or Tops
Open-back clothing reveals more than many churchgoers expect—and pew seating emphasizes it. During prayer, kneeling can make exposure worse. The sensation of bare backs against wooden pews has been jokingly called “penance.” One gust of wind can turn it into a full wardrobe mishap.
Torn Or Ripped Jeans
Though common in streetwear, ripped jeans send the wrong signal in traditional churches. They’re associated with rebellion or disregard for formality. Some churches allow jeans but draw the line at rips. Pastors have even quipped: “Jesus was pierced, not your pants.”
Flip-Flops Or Beach Sandals
You’ll hear them before you see them—flip-flops echo loudly on church floors. They’re seen as too casual and can break the sacred atmosphere. Some churches offer spare closed-toe shoes. While “holy ground” is symbolic, uncovered toes in the church still make many uneasy.
Clothes With Political Slogans
Wearing your politics to church risks dividing the room. These messages distract from worship and cause tension among members. Now, some churches explicitly request no political statements on shirts or otherwise in their welcome materials.
Pajamas Or Loungewear
Pajamas might be fine for online services, but wearing them in person can seem disrespectful. They don’t match the church’s atmosphere of reverence and discipline. Many feel pajamas show a lack of effort and don’t suit the setting.