Lisa O
Being in a relationship has its own magic, but let’s be real—there are parts of being single that people secretly miss. Some of these are obvious, while others sneak up on you when you least expect it. Here’s a list of things that make singlehood feel like a golden era in hindsight.
Total Freedom to Do What You Want
Ever wanted to pack your bags and disappear for a weekend without telling anyone? When you’re single, that’s a reality. No coordinating schedules, no explaining why you need time alone. You can be as spontaneous as you want—whether it’strying a new hobby, moving cities, or even quitting your job just because you feel like it.
Having the Entire Bed to Yourself
There’s something magical about sleeping alone. You can stretch out in every direction, stack pillows however you want, and wrap yourself in the blanket like a burrito. No one snores next to you, steals the covers, or accidentally kicks you in their sleep. Plus, you wake up exactly as you slept—no sudden movements to accommodate another person.
Spending Money Without Justifying It
When you’re single, your finances are your own. Want to buy an expensive gadget, splurge on designer clothes, or spend all your money on takeout? No one’s there to question it. There’s no need to budget for joint expenses, discuss “financial goals,” or worry about how your spending habits affect someone else. It’s financial independence at its peak.
Eating Whatever, Whenever, However
There’s no debating over “What should we eat?” No compromising between your cravings and someone else’s preferences. You can have cereal for dinner, sushi for breakfast, or eat the same thing every day for a week. Plus, there’s no one judging you for eating in bed or dipping fries in ice cream—your food, your rules.
Unlimited ‘Me Time’ Without Guilt
You can spend an entire weekend in your pajamas, binge-watching shows, reading books, or doing absolutely nothing. No one’s expecting constant texts, video calls, or emotional check-ins. There’s no guilt about prioritizing yourself, no pressure to always be available, and no feeling of obligation to spend time with someone when you’d rather be alone.
Zero Relationship Drama or Emotional Stress
Relationships, no matter how healthy, come with stress. Arguments, misunderstandings, emotional ups and downs—it’s all part of the deal. But when you’re single, there are no deep discussions about where the relationship is going, no overanalyzing texts, and no exhausting fights over things like who forgot to do the dishes. It’s just peaceful, drama-free living.
Flirting Without Overthinking It
A little harmless flirting at a café, a fun conversation with a stranger at a party, or exchanging smiles with someone attractive—it’s all part of the thrill of singlehood. Even innocent interactions feel like a gray area when you’re in a relationship. But when you’re single, you can enjoy the excitement of flirting without feeling guilty.
Living by Your Own Routine, No Adjustments
You don’t have to fit your schedule around someone else’s. You can wake up at noon, have breakfast at 4 PM, or work late into the night without worrying about “couple time.” If you feel like taking a long evening walk or watching a movie at 2 AM, there’s no one asking, “Why are you up so late?”
Binge-Watching Whatever You Want
Ever had to sit through a show you hated just because your partner loved it? Or worse, did you have to wait days for them to catch up so you could continue watching? When you’re single, the remote is yours. There are no debates over movie genres, no fights over spoilers—just uninterrupted, guilt-free binge-watching at your own pace.
Spending More Time with Friends Without Guilt
Friendships don’t take a backseat when you’re single. You can plan last-minute meetups, take spontaneous weekend trips, and stay out late without anyone asking, “When are you coming home?” There’s no feeling of neglecting a partner when you spend time with your friends, and no one questioning why you hang out with them so often.
Keeping Your Space Exactly the Way You Like It
Love minimalism? Go for it. Prefer a messy, “organized chaos” setup? That works, too. No one’s judging your decorating choices, complaining about clutter, or insisting on a neutral color palette for the living room. Your home, your rules. You can hang posters, keep random knickknacks, and leave laundry wherever you want—without hearing a single complaint.
No Awkward Social Events You Didn’t Sign Up For
When you’re in a relationship, you end up attending a lot of events—family dinners, office parties, random get-togethers with your partner’s friends. Not all of them are fun, but skipping them isn’t always an option. When you’re single, you don’t have to endure hours of small talk with strangers just to keep someone else happy.
Growing at Your Own Pace Without External Pressure
Relationships often come with a timeline—when to move in together, when to get engaged, when to settle down. But when you’re single, life moves at your pace. You can change careers, take a break, move to a new city, or focus on self-improvement without worrying about how your choices affect someone else’s future plans.
Not Having to Share Your Food—Ever
Imagine ordering your favorite meal and actually getting to eat all of it. No one stealing fries, no one saying, “Just one bite,” and then taking half your plate. When you’re single, you can eat every last bite without guilt, without compromise, and without someone dipping into your dessert without permission.
The Excitement of Unlimited Possibilities
Being single means your future is wide open, and that’s pretty exciting. You never know what’s coming next—a career switch, a wild trip, or maybe even bumping into someone who turns your world upside down (relax, we’re talking about it in a good way). It’s the kind of freedom you don’t realize is special until it’s not there anymore.