10 Signs Your Friendship is Catching the Love Bug

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Let’s face it: sometimes friendships have a way of surprising you. This isn’t about ditching your crew for coupledom but rather exploring the intriguing possibility that your platonic partner would be your next romantic significant other. In any case, here are ten sure signs you might be falling for your BFF!

Butterflies on Speed Dial

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You used to call your bestie to dish about the latest music, but now your stomach erupts in nervous flutters before hanging out. Every text exchange feels loaded, and the name on your phone screen sparks a thrill you can’t explain.

Third-Wheeling? Not Today

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Group outings used to be a favorite activity, a chance to catch up with old friends. Now, you find yourself strategically maneuvering closer to your buddy during gatherings or secretly hoping the movie night turns into an exclusive two-person event.

Inner Matchmaker Takes Over

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With love in the air, rom-com quotes strangely apply to your friendship. You start picturing them as your plus-one at weddings and can’t help but nudge toward that seemingly perfect single friend.

Confessions Become Currency

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Deep talks were your thing, but lately, they’ve gotten more personal. Sharing some confessions, you swore off telling anyone has become a norm between you two. Late-night dialogues stretch into the early hours, or whispered secrets when watching a film will also feel a tad more intimate than ever.

Jealousy Makes an Appearance

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A harmless flirtation with someone else makes your blood run cold. Your possessiveness will surprise you, but it could be a sign that your feelings are more than friendly. Feeling a pang of annoyance when they spend extra time chatting with another person is a clear giveaway that emotions are on a whole new level.

Wardrobe Upgrade Alert

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Pajama pants and messy buns might have been once a go-to hangout uniform. All of a sudden, you’re making an effort to look better prior to catching up with that “friend.” Maybe you even hope they compliment your new haircut or the cute outfit you bought!

My Plans to “Our” Plans

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Talking about a five-year plan used to be a solo mission. These days, you instinctively include them in your future visions, from dream vacations to career goals. Suggesting they join you on that backpacking trip across Europe that you’ve dreamed of or casually mentioning how a new apartment listing seems ideal now.

Accidental Touch

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Innocent touches, like a pleasant arm rub here or a prolonged pat on the back, appear to occur frequently and last too long. Perhaps you see your hand “accidentally” touching theirs on a stroll, or you are a little startled when they offer to assist you.

Flirty Nicknames

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Here’s one tell-tale sign that is quite obvious to those around you. Adorable pet names or playful nicknames begin popping up in conversations, adding a new layer of intimacy. Anything from “Dude” or “Sis” is out of the door!

Gush All You Want

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They always seem to be the topic of conversation, whether at work or home. Notice how you mention them constantly without trying—a sure sign they occupy a big space in your mind and even your heart.

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