Bruno Pugh
Let’s face it—every generation has its habits that make the others shake their heads. Boomers, you’ve seen and done a lot, but a few of those well-worn ways can feel a little… out of sync. No judgment here, just a lighthearted list of things worth rethinking.
Saying “Nobody Wants To Work Anymore”
Saying this overlooks real challenges, such as rising costs and a lack of flexibility. Times have changed, and so has the workplace. Work ethic doesn’t cut it alone; it’s about survival.
Voicemails That Could Be Texts
Leaving a long voicemail for something a quick text could solve feels outdated. Most folks don’t check voicemails right away. It’s easier to read and reply on the go. Save the audio messages for significant events, not everyday things like lunch plans or weather updates.
Overusing All Caps Online
Typing in all caps doesn’t make a point stronger; it just feels like yelling. Whether you’re posting birthday wishes or ranting about politics, people tune out. Use regular fonts, please. Your message matters, but not when it feels like a digital shout.
Overexplaining Basic Tech
Yes, we know how to use an app. Walking someone through how to copy and paste for the fiftieth time feels unnecessary. Younger folks grew up with this stuff. Unless someone asks, skip the tutorials and trust they’ve got it down.
Saying “Back In My Day” A Bit Too Much
Nostalgia hits hard, but constantly bringing up the past makes you sound out of touch. The world changes fast, and embracing it is better than fighting it. Sharing memories is great; just don’t use them to dismiss new ways of living.
Overdecorating Every Holiday
From inflatable Santas to singing pumpkins and Valentine’s bows on everything, yes, some boomers overdecorate. It’s fun, sure, but when every square inch screams holiday, it gets overwhelming. Keep the spirit, but tone down the spectacle. Subtle can still be festive without startling the neighbors or blocking the sidewalk.
Saying “Because I Said So”
Authority without explanation no longer holds sway. Kids and young adults want reasons, not power trips. Saying “because I said so” shuts down communication. It’s okay to explain your thinking. It will earn you more respect and keep everyone on the same page.
Telling People They’re “Too Sensitive”
Everyone’s allowed to feel things, and all feelings are legitimate. Dismissing emotions with “you’re too sensitive” makes people feel small. The world is evolving emotionally, and empathy matters. Let people express their thoughts instead of deciding what’s valid or dramatic.
Clipping Coupons Loudly At The Register
We all love a good deal. But holding up the line while digging through expired coupons or arguing prices drives everyone up the wall. Try scanning deals ahead of time or using a dedicated app. Saving money’s cool, but not when it holds up 12 other people.
Correcting People’s Grammar Mid-Sentence
We all make typos. But interrupting someone’s story just to say, “It’s ‘whom,’ not ‘who,’ kills the vibe fast. Let it slide unless you’re in an English class or editing a book. Communication is about connection, not scoring points with grammar trivia.
Judging Modern Parenting
Unlike you, kids today get screen time, gentle parenting, and weird snacks. And that’s okay. Saying, “We turned out fine,” misses the point. Each generation does what it can with what it has. Respecting new approaches means fewer eye rolls at the family barbecue.
Oversharing Personal Medical Stuff In Public
Your sciatica. Your colonoscopy. Your friend’s bunion surgery. We get it—you’ve been through things. But not every dinner table or grocery line needs to hear the details. Some information is better kept private for close friends or your doctor.
Talking Over Waitstaff Or Clerks
Service workers aren’t beneath anyone. Ignoring or talking down to them is rude, plain and simple. It leaves a bad impression on everyone around. Say “please,” ask nicely, and treat them with the respect you expect from others.
Overusing Forwarded Email Chains
No, Bill Gates won’t send you money for forwarding that email. Sharing outdated chain letters or scare stories clutters inboxes. Most of those warnings have been debunked for years. If it sounds too dramatic, it probably doesn’t belong in anyone’s inbox.
Refusing To Learn New Things Because “It’s Too Late”
Technology isn’t the enemy—it’s the world now. Refusing to learn how to use apps, tap cards, or stream TV “because you’re old” isn’t charming when it’s avoidable. You’re capable. Learning keeps you sharp and connected. Age doesn’t excuse opting out of life.
Assuming Everyone Wants Advice
Sometimes, people vent to feel heard, not fixed. Jumping in with solutions every time can come across as dismissive. A simple “that sucks” or “want help thinking through it?” goes further than an unsolicited roadmap. Listening is more potent than lecturing.
Hogging The Conversation
Telling long, winding stories without pauses makes others tune out. Conversations aren’t monologues. Ask questions, but let others speak their minds. Show interest in what they say. Talking is a two-way thing, not an opportunity to replay every highlight of your high school football game.
Skipping Digital Tips For Servers
Tipping in cash is great, but refusing to use apps or cards can feel awkward if you’re dining with digitally savvy individuals. Sometimes it’s the only option. Embrace the tech; it doesn’t make the tip less meaningful. It shows you’re keeping up.
Shaming People For Therapy
Therapy isn’t weak—it’s maintenance for the mind. Saying “we didn’t need therapy back then” ignores what many kept bottled up. Younger generations talk it out. That’s growth, not fragility. Support the healing, even if you didn’t grow up that way.
Getting Mad When Called “Boomer”
Unless you make it one, being called a Boomer is not an insult. Most people aren’t angry at a generation. They’re reacting to habits that feel out of touch with their values. Want to shut down the stereotype? Show them something different. Flex your openness instead.