Lisa O
Not all cats are loners. Some want to be wherever you are—on your lap, next to your laptop, pressed against your legs while you sleep. If you’re looking for a cat that loves closeness, these breeds are the ones that don’t play it cool. They’re the Velcro types. They won’t just sit near you. They’ll find a way to be on you. Every time.
Ragdoll
If a cat could melt, this would be it. Ragdolls don’t resist being picked up—they just go limp and stay there. You won’t find them hiding under beds or avoiding touch. They’re relaxed, slow-moving, and often happiest when draped across your lap or feet. Some even wait by the door when they hear your keys. They don’t follow you because they’re curious. They just don’t want to be anywhere else.
Siamese
You’ll hear them before you see them. Siamese cats are loud, bold, and never far from your side. They talk when they want food when they want attention, and sometimes just to make noise. It’s not annoying—it’s personal. They don’t keep things to themselves. They bond closely with their person and don’t like being left out. If you want quiet affection, this isn’t it. But it’s loyalty, no question.
Scottish Fold
You won’t find this cat making a scene. They’re not shy—they’re just soft about everything. When they want to be close, they’ll come sit next to you without much fuss. They’re not big on chaos or change. If things are quiet and familiar, they’re happy. They don’t cuddle to demand something. They do it because you’re their safe spot. And once they pick you, they stick with you.
Tonkinese
This is not a background cat. Tonkinese want in on everything. You fold laundry—they jump in. You sit down—they’re already climbing up. They don’t just tolerate people. They seek them out constantly. Some will even nudge your face while you sleep. They’re playful and social, but not in a hyper way. They just want your time, your attention, and your lap. Preferably, all three at once.
Sphynx
If you’ve got one of these, you already know—they don’t really leave you alone. They want to sit on your lap, your shoulder, sometimes even your face. It’s not just because they’re cold. They like people. A lot. You can walk from one room to another, and they’ll be right behind you. They don’t sneak off for naps. They’d rather nap where you are, even if it’s not comfortable.
Birman
Some cats beg for affection. Birmans wait quietly until you notice them. They’re not shy, just soft in how they show love. You’ll often find them curled nearby, paws tucked, eyes half closed. They won’t interrupt you, but they’re always there. They are steady, have a silent presence, and aren’t clingy. They are always within arm’s reach, waiting for your attention, but will never demand it.
Maine Coon
You don’t have to call them—they’ll usually be somewhere in the room already. They sit off to the side, watch what you’re doing, and stay close without needing much. If you leave, they’ll probably get up and follow. They’re not in a rush; they’re just sort of curious. Some might chirp a little if you talk to them, but most of the time, they’re quiet. They just like being near the person they trust.
Oriental Shorthair
They’re not trying to be subtle. They want to be where you are, and they want it now. Oriental Shorthairs are intense, expressive, and totally into their people. If you’re on the phone, they’ll talk over you. If you’re busy, they’ll climb something until you pay attention. It’s not for everyone. But if you like a cat that makes their love obvious and loud, this is your match.
Devon Rex
Devons have that look like they’re about to do something silly—and they usually are. But in between the zoomies, they’re glued to your side. Some will wrap around your neck. Others nest inside your hoodie. They don’t love you in a chill way. They love you with all limbs, all energy, all the time. If you want a cat that shows up every minute and makes you laugh doing it—this is it.
Burmese
You don’t choose a Burmese. They choose you—and they’re never letting go. These cats are bold, affectionate, and often the first to meet guests at the door. But their real loyalty stays with you. If you leave a room, they’ll follow. If you sit down, they’re on your lap. They’re confident, yes—but mostly they just want to be near you, always. It’s not subtle. It’s not quiet. But it’s real.
Ragamuffin
If this cat could talk, it would probably say, “Is this spot taken?” and then sit on you anyway. Ragamuffins are soft, calm, and perfectly fine, being held for way too long. Some won’t even twitch when you carry them around like a baby. They trust easily and love fully. They’re not pushy about it—they just want to be wherever you are, preferably on something soft and warm, like you.
Abyssinian
This cat shows affection in motion. They don’t sit still for long. But they always circle back. They’ll jump up to see what you’re doing, follow you into random rooms, or paw at you when they’re ready for play. They’re not lap cats—but they are loyal. They want to be in your space on their terms. It’s fast, scattered affection—but it’s frequent. They don’t ignore you. They’re just busy.
Himalayan
You won’t always notice them at first. They’re not the kind of cat that makes a scene. But they’ve got this quiet way of always being nearby. You settle on the couch, and they show up a minute later. Not climbing into your lap—just picking a spot close by. They don’t need attention every second. They just like being in the same space. That kind of quiet company sticks with you.
Chartreux
They’re not the kind of cat that follows you around loudly or begs for attention, but they always seem to be in the room with you anyway. You don’t hear them come in—they just show up and settle somewhere nearby, like it’s the most normal thing in the world. They won’t make a big deal out of it, but that calm, steady presence becomes something you start noticing when it’s not there.
Norwegian Forest Cat
They take a little time to get comfortable with people, but they’re steady companions once they do. They won’t climb into your lap or follow you from room to room, but they’ll stay close in their own way. Some will nap on the same couch or quietly sit by the window while you work. They’re not distant, just calm. Their affection shows up in small moments, and it feels genuine when it does.