Lisa O
While it’s nice to care for your cat so much, experts say it’s important to remember they’re not human. Cats have their own needs and preferences. Sometimes, the things we do that we think they’ll like actually annoy them. Learning more about your kitty can help strengthen your bond. Here are 15 things people do that cats hate!
Cats get bothered by loud noises
Loud noises like washing machines, yelling, music, phones, fireworks, and big family gatherings bother cats a lot. Being careful about loud noises around your feline friends might help, but cats are good at getting away from noise and finding quiet spots. It’s only when they can’t escape—like during fireworks—that they get very stressed out.
Cats turn their noses up at spoiled food
You know how you don’t like eating spoiled food? Well, your cat feels the same way! Eating old food not only tastes terrible but can also make your cat sick. Bacteria can grow in food that’s been left out too long—especially when it’s warm. So whenever you’re feeding your furry friend, check the expiration dates on both dry and wet food to keep them super healthy.
Most cats don’t like getting wet
It’s no secret that cats don’t like getting wet—it’s a stereotype! They steer clear of water, duck away from rain, and absolutely loathe being showered. Cats believe their tongues are all they need to stay clean. Giving your kitten a bath or shower should only be done when needed, like if they get into something toxic or oily or need to look their best for a show.
Cats prefer gentle petting over rough handling
While some dogs might like a firm back rub or a playful belly rub, most cats prefer a softer touch. Rough pats, strong strokes, or messing with their paws or tails can make cats feel threatened, and they might run away, scratch, or just get stressed. Many cats don’t enjoy being hugged tightly—a feeling known as “feline hyperesthesia.” This is especially true for rescue cats, so be careful when petting them.
Cats can’t stand car rides
Cats often seek refuge under cars when scared, but most dislike car rides, and some are downright terrified of them. The movement, loud sounds, and unfamiliar smells can stress a cat out, and they’re also prone to feeling queasy. So it’s best only to take felines in the car when it’s absolutely necessary—like for vet visits or when you’re going away and need to take them to a cat hotel.
Cats need time to warm up to new babies
You’ll adore your new baby and cat but don’t expect them to be best buddies immediately—even if your cat enjoys baby talk. Big changes like having a newborn can stress out felines. The ASPCA website has tips for helping your cat adjust to sharing their home with a tiny human. One idea is to play baby sounds to help your kitty get used to the idea of a new family member.
Cats can find changes in their routine stressful
When it comes to stressful changes for cats, having a new baby isn’t the only big issue. Moving your cat’s litter box should be done slowly. If you have to move to a new home—it’s even more worrying because cats dislike changes of any sort. Safety is a huge concern because nervous felines might run away or hide in places they shouldn’t.
Most cats don’t like to be ignored
While not all cats are big on attention, many pet cats enjoy it—but they like it when they feel like it, not necessarily when you do. If a cat wants you to stop what you’re doing and give them some love, they might hop onto your lap or your desk and get in the way. Cat owners often notice their furry friends demanding attention, especially with more people working from home using laptops.
Cats value having their own cozy spots at home
A cat’s bed, favorite hiding spot, or cozy corner in the yard should be off-limits to humans. It’s very important to remind your children of this because they might want to pick the cat up from its resting place for a cuddle. Felines are territorial creatures and need their own places to chill without being disturbed.
Cats hate using dirty litter boxes
Cats are clean creatures and won’t use a dirty litter box. So, cleaning the litter box regularly is essential to keep things smelling good. People often wonder what smells cats dislike, and the answer is pretty obvious—they don’t like the smell of their own poop (and neither do we)! Plus, without their peel, they’re not fans of strong scents like air fresheners, incense, or citrus fruits.
Cats get bored when their days are too predictable
While big changes can stress out cats, they don’t necessarily want every day to be exactly the same. A home that always stays the same can be very boring for them. But if they’re not used to any variety in their routine, they might get extra anxious when something unexpected happens—like visitors or repairs. Giving your cat new toys and ways to play can keep their minds active and happy.
Cats dislike sharing their space with other pets
Even if a kitten grows up with other cats or dogs, it might tolerate their presence, but cats value having their own space. They’re naturally independent animals. Unlike humans or many dog breeds, felines don’t rely on having a companion. Just observe how cats behave around other cats in their territory—like in the backyard, to see this in action.
Cats can be stubborn about taking their medicine
Dogs might be tricked into taking medicine by wrapping it in ham or mixing it with their treats, but cats are a bit more stubborn. Giving cat tablets usually involves coating them with butter and gently massaging their throat. Liquid medicine for felines usually needs to be refrigerated—but they’re more likely to take it if it’s at room temperature.
Cats don’t respond well to physical punishment
This is something a cat won’t easily forget. If your kitty does something you don’t like, it’s best to discourage the behavior with a gentle noise—like clapping or tapping your hand with a rolled-up magazine (but keep in mind, they don’t like loud noises either). Never use physical punishment because it can damage the trust between you and your feline friend.
Cats dislike interacting with strangers
It’s essential to pay attention to your cat’s reactions, especially when someone new wants to pet them. This is important if the person is a child or not used to being around felines much. One way to tell if a cat is okay with being petted by a stranger is to let them sniff your hand and then observe their reaction. If they don’t seem interested or walk away—it’s best to respect their space.