
Anyone can talk, but having a great conversation is a skill that’s not easy for everyone to master. The difference between a good and bad conversationalist isn’t just about keeping the chat flowing. Sometimes, we do things that unintentionally come off as rude. Here are 15 rude conversation habits you need to stop ASAP!
Constantly checking your phone

Even a quick glance at your phone during a chat can make it seem like you don’t care about what the other person is saying. We all need to check our phones sometimes—but try to give your full attention to the conversation. Show that you value what they’re saying, and let your texts wait for a few minutes.
Making everything about you

When someone’s talking about their work drama, and you jump in with how much worse your job is, you’re not sharing—you’re taking over the chat. People want to feel heard, not constantly one-upped. Instead of turning the focus back on yourself, offer some sympathy, support, or just listen. Remember, not everything has to be about you!
Offering advice when it’s not asked for

Unless someone specifically asks for advice, keep it to yourself! When people vent, they usually just want to be heard, not have their problems fixed. Offering solutions too soon can make it seem like you’re ignoring their feelings. If you want to help, ask, “Do you want some advice or just need to vent?” first.
Cutting people off before they finish

Being enthusiastic is great, but interrupting someone is very rude. It can make them feel like you don’t care about what they’re saying and are just waiting for your chance to talk. If you have something to add—make a mental note and wait until they’ve finished speaking. Good conversations are all about sharing equally, so try not to dominate the chat.
Being brutally honest without a filter

You might think that being “brutally honest” is a good thing or that a true friend always tells the truth, no matter how harsh. But this can be a way for rude people to justify their bad behavior. The issue with brutal honesty is that it can be hurtful, and that’s never really okay. Being truthful is important, but there’s a lot of space between lying and being overly harsh with someone’s feelings.
Sharing private chats online

It has become quite common to share conversations—whether they’re funny, serious, or even arguments—online for everyone to see. You might think you’re just sharing a cute story about your kids or getting advice on a fight with your partner, but posting conversations without the other person’s permission breaks all the rules of good internet manners. Sometimes, it can even feel like a betrayal of your relationship.
Relying too much on sarcasm

Some people have a sarcastic sense of humor (sometimes as a way to protect themselves). But sarcasm can be hit or miss, especially if the person doesn’t know you well. In a new relationship, it might seem like you’re making fun of them or just leaving them confused. Sarcasm is also super rude and out of place in formal situations.
Missing social cues

If someone keeps glancing at their watch or giving shorter responses, it usually means they’re ready to wrap up the conversation. Pushing to keep talking can come off as not paying attention and not really engaging with them. It’s important to respect their time and energy. And don’t take it personally— it might have nothing to do with you! They could just be busy or tired.
Dropping names to look important

No one’s going to be impressed if you talk about how your cousin’s neighbor’s hairdresser once met a super famous person. Using these weak links to fame just makes you look insecure—not cool. Instead, focus on showing off your own personality and real achievements. Being genuine about who you are will make a much better impression than dropping names.
Acting like you’re the main character

Thanks to YouTube stars and Instagram influencers, people now talk about “main character syndrome,” where you act like you’re the star and everyone else is just a supporting role. Everyone wants to share their own stories, not just listen to yours. Only talking about yourself isn’t just self-centered; it makes the conversation boring and annoying, too.
Agreeing with everything just to be nice

When you’re chatting with someone and want to be nice and polite, it might seem like agreeing with everything is the best way to go. At first, this might look like the opposite of rude—after all, you’re just trying to be kind and helpful. But always agreeing or saying yes to everything is actually a sign of weak boundaries.
Oversharing or undersharing

When someone asks how you’re doing, do you unload every little detail about your life’s chaos? Or do you shut down and dodge any personal questions? Both oversharing (dumping too much information about your life) and undersharing (keeping everything to yourself) can be seen as rude because they make the conversation awkward for the other person.
Acting like you know it all

You might know a lot, but if you keep bragging about it or always pointing out others’ mistakes, it can come off as if you think they’re clueless. Even if you mean well—make sure what you’re talking about is something the other person actually cares about or knows a bit about. Otherwise, your well-intentioned comments might just end up annoying them or making them feel bad.
Turning every chat into gossip

Celebrity gossip is a huge deal, and with social media, everyday gossip is getting just as juicy, if not more. Even though most of us don’t like being gossiped about, it’s still a hot topic. Sharing information about others might seem like it’s out of concern—but that’s just an excuse. Gossip is always rude and can hurt both you and the person being talked about, often leading to comparisons and jealousy.
Shutting down during arguments

Every relationship has its ups and downs, and disagreements are totally normal. But if you shut down completely, it can prevent any chance of resolving the issue. It’s okay to need a break to cool off, but it’s important to communicate. Instead of freezing them out—try saying something like, “I’m feeling overwhelmed right now; can we talk about this later today?”