Johann Hunt
Human behavior is an intriguing and complicated subject. Some behaviors people exhibit are undesirable and can negatively impact relationships and social harmony. One such conduct is entitlement. Entitlement is the conviction that one deserves special treatment or privileges, often without considering the needs or feelings of others. It’s like expecting the world to revolve around you, regardless of the reality that everyone has challenges and responsibilities. Here are 15 behaviors that scream a sense of entitlement.
Expecting Special Treatment
Entitled individuals often believe they deserve superior treatment compared to others. They might anticipate skipping lines at the store, getting the best table at a restaurant without a reservation, or receiving more lenient deadlines at work or school. Coming from bloated self-importance and superiority, it leads to anger when reality doesn’t meet their expectations.
They Rarely Show Gratitude
Gratitude is seldom expressed by those who feel entitled. People like this take the kindness and efforts of others for granted, assuming these gestures are their due. Whether it’s a friend’s favor or a colleague’s assistance, they overlook the importance of appreciation, leaving those around them feeling undervalued and exploited.
Shifting Blame
When faced with failure or mistakes, these individuals quickly point fingers at others rather than acknowledge their own faults. This deflection preserves their self-image but erodes trust and accountability in their personal and professional relationships. Responsibility for actions and inactions are things entitled individuals tend to feign ignorance of.
They Deflect Conversations
Ever try to share your success at Thanksgiving only to have that one cousin immediately shift the conversation to their achievements? This is a classic entitlement move. “Oh, you got a promotion? That reminds me of the time I got promoted twice in one year!” It’s like they carry around an invisible spotlight, always ready to shine it on their own lives.
Immediate Satisfaction
Patience might be a virtue by societal standards, but definitely not for entitled people. Living a life that’s ruled by impulsion and impatience, they insist that their needs and desires be fulfilled immediately. Regardless of a customer service scenario, at work, or in their personal lives, there’s a pressing compulsion for immediate satisfaction.
They Ignore Rules and Boundaries
Ever heard the phrase ‘Above the Law?’ That’s the slogan for entitled people. Societal norms and personal boundaries are useless, and they act as if rules do not apply to them. People like this overstep personal and public boundaries with blatant disregard. They are not to be confused with manipulative people who do this with cunning justifications.
They Believe They Are Always Right
Forget the fact that perfection is a romantic myth to keep kings on their thrones because entitled individuals often have an unwavering belief in their own opinions and judgments. With a skewed perspective of reality and self-awareness, they tend to dismiss others’ outlooks and can be inflexible in discussions or debates.
They Frequently Complain
Perhaps because they feel they don’t deserve an iota of discomfort, but chronic complaining is another hallmark of entitled behavior. These folks often focus on the negatives and think that their needs or desires are not being adequately met. So next time you’re out on a date and your partner complains about everything from the valet to the bill, take a cue!
They Take Credit for Others’ Work
Does this bring that annoying colleague from work to mind? That one who just loves to bask in the glory of others’ work? A sense of entitlement can lead people to claim credit for accomplishments that are not entirely theirs. In professional settings, they may downplay the contributions of team members while highlighting their involvement.
They Show Little Empathy
As a result of their laser focus on their own gains, it is challenging for entitled individuals to appreciate the struggles or emotions of those around them. These are the kinds of people who would show more concern about a canceled date than the well-being of those around them or even be furious when a sick friend throws up in their ‘precious’ car.
They Feel Rules Should Be Bent for Them
Having a love-hate relationship with rule flexibility is a trait that shows blatant entitlement. When it favors these folks, they would want the world to bow to their whims—but when it doesn’t, they advocate for the full wrath of the law. Whether it’s a deadline at work, a law, or a social expectation, they think exceptions should be made in their favor.
They Interrupt Conversations
Imagine being in the middle of sharing an important story with friends, only to be abruptly cut off by someone who thinks their tale is more significant. Entitled people often interrupt others, disregarding social etiquette and the flow of conversation. It’s like they have an “interrupt priority” button they can’t resist pushing.
They Expect Favors Without Reciprocity
Do you have that one friend who constantly asks for help on projects but is mysteriously unavailable whenever you need assistance? People who frequently expect others to do them favors without any intention of reciprocating are entitled. It’s like borrowing your neighbor’s lawnmower every weekend or never offering to fill up the gas tank!
They Expect Unconditional Compliance
Entitlement sometimes borders on dictatorship. Think of a manager who gives last-minute assignments and expects the team to drop everything to meet their demands without question. These folks are the stars in a personal production of “The World Revolves Around Me,” where everyone else is just a supporting character.
They Disregard Other People’s Time
In the delusional bid to be ‘fashionably late,’ entitled people show up late to every meeting or social event, never acknowledging the inconvenience caused to others. They often disregard the value of others’ time, assuming that everyone else’s schedule should bend to accommodate theirs. There’s a special time zone just for them—Entitlement Standard Time(EST).
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