Johann Hunt
Generational differences can sometimes lead to misunderstandings, especially when it comes to habits and behaviors. What’s considered normal or even endearing to one generation may feel outdated or intrusive to another. Curious to see what’s causing the divide? Keep reading to discover 10 things boomers do that younger generations find outdated.
Commenting On Appearance
Boomers often make comments about appearance without a second thought, whether it’s about someone’s weight, outfit, or energy levels. “You look tired” or “That haircut is different” might be said casually, but for younger generations, these comments can feel unwelcome or intrusive, as they may place unnecessary focus on appearance.
Expecting Instant Replies To Calls And Messages
For boomers, phone calls and texts are often treated with urgency, where a delayed response might signal something’s wrong. On the other hand, younger generations emphasize boundaries, recognizing that being connected 24/7 isn’t realistic. A delayed reply isn’t a sign of neglect; it’s simply a part of managing daily life.
Asking About Salary And Personal Finances
Boomers grew up in a time when financial milestones were more predictable, and money was a straightforward topic. But for younger generations dealing with market shifts, financial discussions are stressful. So, while boomers see the topic as practical or even friendly, younger people view them as pressure-filled.
Criticizing Tattoos, Piercings, Or Hair Choices
“What will that look like when you’re older?” or “You’ll never get a job with that!” are classic boomer one-liners. Many see body modifications as a phase of youthful recklessness. With the world becoming more accepting of self-expression, the idea that ink or piercings ruin job prospects feels outdated.
Assuming Younger People Don’t Know Anything
It’s not uncommon for boomers to assume younger generations lack experience or understanding. At the same time, younger people face pressure to be independent and make confident decisions early on, which can feel like a conflicting set of expectations.
Dropping By Unannounced
Surprise visits are seen as a friendly and spontaneous way to connect, a practice that was more common in earlier generations. However, for others, particularly Millennials and Gen Z, privacy and boundaries are prioritized, and a heads-up before a visit is often appreciated. Unannounced visits can sometimes feel unexpected or disruptive.
Assuming Everyone Wants Kids
Marriage and children have traditionally been seen as milestones in life for many. However, younger generations may choose different paths, and the constant question of “When are you having kids?” can feel pressuring, especially for those who aren’t ready or interested.
Loudly Complaining In Public
For some boomers, if something’s wrong, it needs to be addressed right away—loudly and often with a manager involved, ensuring everyone around knows about it. Younger generations, on the other hand, tend to feel secondhand embarrassment, hoping things could be handled more quietly.
Forcing Kids To Hug Relatives
Boomers often see family hugs as a loving gesture, regardless of whether the child is fully on board. However, younger generations tend to prioritize personal space and teaching kids about bodily autonomy. If someone feels uncomfortable, it’s important not to pressure them.
Telling People To “Toughen Up”
For some, reminiscing about “back in my day” is a way to reflect on a time when resilience was often tied to keeping emotions in check, with vulnerability sometimes seen as a sign of weakness. For younger generations, however, emotional intelligence and mental health are priorities. Being encouraged to “toughen up” can sometimes feel dismissive of their concerns.